VIDEO:Dingaan Mokebe has some words of wisdom.
Dingaan Mokebe has some words of wisdom.
Muvhango actor Dingaan Mokebe (ka Khumalo) has some words of wisdom to share with abomakoti and abo mkhwenyana who are “suffering” at the hands of their in-laws. The actor believes these ill-treated people got to blame their partners for allowing their families to treat them like dirt.
The actor took to his Instagram TV to share some advice as a part of his diary sessions. He warned newlyweds or new partners that are met belligerently from their in-laws to affect their partners because the in-laws aren’t responsible.
“You know, if your in-laws don’t such as you or if they’re mistreating you or if they’re ill-treating you… all of that’s your partner’s fault. All of that was caused by your partner and no-one else. Your in-laws didn’t just awaken at some point and choose ‘we don’t like this woman/man’. Your partner allowed it.
“If your in-laws are treating you wish nonsense, don’t blame them, check out your partner!” he said.
The TV presenter slammed those that let their partners suffer at the hands of their relations. He said regardless of things, one’s husband or wife should defend their partners.
Dingaan said if it ever decreased thereto, he would always get on his partner’s side.
“There’s no way my family – and I’m talking about me personally – that my family would ever treat my wife or partner or girlfriend or anybody that I’m involved sort of a piece of nothing. There’s no way and that they realize it because I might never represent it. I will be able to always defend the person I’m with.”
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