Ntsiki Mazwai Verbal abuse is the same as physical abuse. Abuse is abuse. Nobody was innocent in that altercation

Ntsiki Mazwai Verbal abuse is the same as physical abuse. Abuse is abuse. Nobody was innocent in that altercation

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Ntsiki Mazwai has weighed in on the Boity Thulo, Bujy Bikwa saga and said it should not be categorized as Gender-Based Violence (GBV). Instead, it should be bluntly put as two people who were drunk, insulting each other, which resulted in one person retaliating.

Although she does not condone what Bujy did to Boity, she says Boity should not classify herself as a woman who is a victim of Gender-Based Violence.
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“Guys I have a problem with GBV being put in the same level as impi yasetshwaleni (club fights). I have a problem with that. I have a problem with two drunkards who were slurring at each other calling each other fat fucks, being in the same category as some woman who is genuinely abused by her man, I have a problem,” she stated in a video.

Since this morning, Ntsiki has been discussing this on her social media. She is a GBV activist who once found herself on the wrong side of the law as she proudly continued her duties as one.

This morning she tweeted, “Using our voices against GBV does not absolve women of the responsibility not to insult people right?”

Ntsiki wants it to be clear that she is not pro Bujy neither is she pro Boity, “Bujy is long in the trashcan for me….. I just wanna know why we want sober people to be addressing issues at groove… When alcohol abuse is a choice nah mean?”

Ntsiki then unapologetically added, “South Africa has an alcohol addiction problem….. Now alcohol issues have become social issues.”

She then went on to say both Bujy and Boity were wrong at the end of the day and both should be held accountable, “Verbal abuse is the same as physical abuse…Abuse is abuse…Nobody was innocent in that altercation
… Nobody. STOP with the emotional blackmail… These two need to hold themselves accountable for their poor and alcoholic display, signing out.”

Ntsiki received some backlash from people who called her out for hating on Boity. Even though some might agree with her, many are saying it does not change the fact that Bujy assaulted Boity physically.

Ntsiki has been placed under the same category as Ifani who insulted Boity by turning her pain into a joke by using sexual innuendos.

“If God gave me a chance to hit Boity, I wouldn’t use a bottle,” he said adding peach and chili emojis.

Speaking to the media, Bujy revealed that Boity is demanding R1 million from him. He told TshisaLive that Boity sent a letter of demand said it is a bit unfair because they are both at fault.

“I need to take accountability for her scars but now, she opened a case, I got arrested…the worst part is that she sent a letter demanding R1m and I’m just like, so you don’t want to resolve this. Where will I get R1m when both of us are at fault?” he asked.