After losing so many people along the way, Zoleka has found love once again

After losing so many people along the way, Zoleka has found love once again

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Zoleka Mandela, granddaughter of the late former president of the Republic of South Africa Mandela and mama Winnie Madikizela-Mandela, is head over heels crazy and that we love that for her.

 

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Zoleka has lost many loved ones over the years, so it’s always beautiful to ascertain that she remains gaining new people to like .

In 2010, the author and activist tragically lost her 13-year-old daughter, Zenani Mandela, during a car accident. the subsequent year she lost her son Zenawe Zibuyile at infancy. In 2013 , her grandfather Mandela passed, followed by her grandmother Winnie Madikizela-Mandela in 2018. Two years later, in 2020, her mother Zindzi Mandela sadly lost her life. within the same year she took to her Instagram account to announce her split on from husband Thierry Bashala, explaining that it’s taken her two years to go away a relationship that “no longer serves” her.

 

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“Leaving someone you once loved, for eight long years seems like it completely unhinges your entire life until you realize that it’s sparked self-discovery, inner peace and has set you on a path of self-love. It’s taken me two years to go away a relationship that not serves me, one that has eroded (for far too many years) my self-esteem, independence, my mental and spirit , [sic]” she had written.

Although all of this has affected her mentally and emotionally, she still features a positive outlook on life, “Leaving someone you once loved, reaffirms your strengths, it leaves you feeling more liberated and forces you to seem into yourself and to maneuver on even when you’re easier staying during a relationship that (for the worst part) leaves you feeling invisible and undervalued … because you’ve got a fear of abandonment and a fear of being alone” she had also written about her separation from her husband.

Now, the author of When Hope Whispers has finally found love within the arms of her suitor and man-crush, and therefore the two pass the hashtag #UTekkieNoSlamba.

 

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Her man definitely changed her whole perception of Xhosa men, as she had sworn to never date a Xhosa man ever again.

On one among her post, she had said, “Zoleka a couple of months back … “OMG!!! i might NEVER date a Xhosa man. OMG!!! i might NEVER date a male version of myself. NEVER, shem!” Zoleka a couple of months later … “OMG!!! Xhosa King aka @king_mayweather_cana_tbe What have you ever done to me!!! Like, actually just DATE me forever!!! I don’t care what I said a couple of months ago, the Devil is such a liar and you’ve changed my mind!!!”

Now the couple shares glimpses into their days spent together and every one the romantic and goofy things they are doing together. We are here for this type of love!