Vuyokazi’s husband wishes he had chosen Sbusie Phoswa instead of his wife
Hey there, readers! Today, we’re diving into a story that had social media buzzing just a few months ago. It’s the tale of Vuyokazi Nciweni, a woman who took a bold step to reclaim her happiness after stepping away from a polygamous relationship that left her feeling devalued. Let’s break down what went down, the drama, and what it all means for her moving forward.
Vuyokazi was previously involved with Mpumelelo Mseleku, son of prominent polygamist Musa Mseleku. She was in line, along with others, to be one of his wives. But, as she recently revealed, this relationship wasn’t what she envisioned. Vuyokazi opened up about how it was a challenging experience, filled with moments that made her feel worthless. Ouch! Can you imagine thinking that way about yourself in a relationship?
She decided enough was enough and made the leap to leave. And guess what? She didn’t just return to singlehood! Vuyokazi found love in the arms of Chef Xolani Sabelo, who seems to be everything her previous relationship lacked. After a heartfelt courtship filled with sweet gestures like roses and chocolates (major brownie points, Chef!), Xolani recently sent his family to the Eastern Cape to negotiate lobola—the traditional bride price—and it’s all systems go for their wedding plans!
What really struck a chord was Vuyokazi’s reflection on her past. She spoke candidly about Mpumelelo’s hurtful comments, including an eye-popping statement about wanting a virgin as his first wife. That kind of talk can seriously mess with one’s self-worth, and Vuyokazi didn’t shy away from admitting just how low it brought her.
“I chose myself. I chose someone who seems to value me,” she said. Isn’t that a powerful mantra? It’s all about self-love and stepping towards what makes you happy. You go, girl!
Vuyokazi’s husband regrets not picking Sbusie.
But if you think the drama ends there, hold onto your seat! Recently, Xolani made headlines again when he reportedly expressed regrets about not choosing Sbusie Phoswa over Vuyokazi. Now, that’s a plot twist no one saw coming. Social media exploded with reactions, with some people questioning his loyalty and others empathizing with Vuyokazi. One user even asked, “Bafo, why did you get married? Ubujahheni coz now you’re humiliating the poor girl?” A fair point, right?
According to @Musa_Khawula Sbusie Phoswa reports that Vuyokazi Ncaweni’s husband, Xolani Sabelo, has been messaging her to arrange a meetup. He offered to buy her a TV and suggested watching a movie together. Other women have also noted that Xolani is in their DMs seeking similar encounters.
@Musa_Khawula wrote:
"Sbusie Phoswa reveals that Vuyokazi Ncaweni's husband Xolani Sabelo is in her DMs wanting to hook up with her. Vuyokazi Ncaweni's husband Xolani Sabelo offered to purchase a TV for Sbusie Phoswa and further suggested that he'd wanna watch a movie or two with her on the new telly. Other women have shared that Vuyokazi Ncaweni's husband Xolani Sabelo is also in their DMs wanting to hook up with them."
Now, while it might seem like a soap opera, this situation highlights the ongoing complexities of relationships, self-worth, and the necessity of making choices that uplift us rather than break us down. Vuyokazi appears to be on a path toward finding peace and happiness, which is what we all wish for when it comes to love. Here’s hoping she finds that tranquility in this new chapter of her life.
Vuyokazi Ncaweni’s husband Xolani Sabelo says he wishes he chose Sbusie Phoswa over his wife Vuyokazi Ncaweni. pic.twitter.com/OetFFinr4v
— Musa Khawula (@Musa_Khawula) October 9, 2024
Sbusie Phoswa reveals that Vuyokazi Ncaweni’s husband Xolani Sabelo is in her DMs wanting to hook up with her.
Vuyokazi Ncaweni’s husband Xolani Sabelo offered to purchase a TV for Sbusie Phoswa and further suggested that he’d wanna watch a movie or two with her on the new… pic.twitter.com/xG4csb9oqL
— Musa Khawula (@Musa_Khawula) October 9, 2024
