DJ Zinhle’s Powerful Open Letter to Bonang Matheba: Choosing Strength Over Scandal
A Moment That Shook South African Entertainment
In 2015, South Africa witnessed one of the most emotional and public celebrity revelations when award-winning DJ and businesswoman DJ Zinhle (Ntombezinhle Jiyane) wrote an open letter addressing the truth behind her breakup with late rapper Kiernan “AKA” Forbes.
In the heartfelt message, Zinhle confirmed that AKA had cheated on her with media personality Bonang Matheba, and that she discovered the affair just a week before giving birth to their daughter, Kairo Forbes.
The Open Letter That Defined Grace
Instead of choosing public confrontation, DJ Zinhle decided to tell her story through calm honesty and dignity.
She wrote:
“A week before our daughter was born, I found out about an affair between Kiernan (the father of my child) and Bonang Matheba… I have dealt with this and found peace with his choice.”
Her words resonated deeply with women across the country — not because of the scandal, but because of her composure. Zinhle spoke about self-worth, forgiveness, and emotional strength, declaring her intention to remain a positive role model for her daughter and other women going through similar struggles.
Choosing Peace, Not Public Drama
After the revelation, public opinion was divided, but Zinhle refused to feed into negativity.
She focused on her career, motherhood, and healing, continuing to build her brand as a successful DJ, entrepreneur, and television personality.
Her response became an inspiring example of how to rise above betrayal and pain — proving that peace and dignity are more powerful than revenge or scandal.
Years later, Zinhle and AKA managed to co-parent Kairo successfully, showing maturity and mutual respect despite their past.
A Legacy of Strength
Today, DJ Zinhle’s 2015 letter remains a symbol of self-respect, growth, and emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry.
It taught a powerful lesson: that women can reclaim their power not by fighting publicly, but by choosing peace, healing, and self-love.
✨ Conclusion
DJ Zinhle’s story reminds us that even in moments of heartbreak, grace can be louder than chaos.
Her strength continues to inspire countless people — proving that true empowerment begins when you choose yourself.
