REAL Housewives of Durban star Minnie Ntuli finally speaks up after receiving public backlash.

Since joining season 5 of the reality show, Minnie been at the centre of headlines, debates, and trending topics.

She had a dramatic fallout with fellow cast members Precious Udoye and Londie London.

The media personality, Minnie, said she’s doing the work behind the scenes to heal and grow, and she’s even reached out to apologise.

Minnie admitted that being part of the popular Showmax reality show was never in her original plan.

“When the opportunity came, I saw it as a chance to step out of my comfort zone and be part of something bold, loud, and very Durban,” she said.

From the moment she appeared on screen, Minnie became a standout cast member, often trending on social media for her fiery exchanges and bold personality.

“I was nervous about how I’d be perceived. I mean, people will judge you for breathing wrong on camera, but I knew that if I went in with an open heart and stayed true to myself, I’d be okay,” she said.

Still, one of the most talked-about moments was her clash with Londie, which played out in front of the nation.

Minnie said things got out of hand, and while the full story wasn’t aired, she’s since taken accountability and tried to make amends.

“There’s no dramatic backstory or secret feud. What happened between us happened on the show, in real time, and unfortunately, it spiralled,” she said.

“I’ve since reflected and reached out privately to apologise. What viewers saw wasn’t the full picture, but my actions in those moments are on me.”

As for the emotional toll that comes with reality TV, she’s learnt to step back and protect her peace.

“I take breaks. I protect my peace. I pray a lot, I’ve learnt to remind myself that public opinion doesn’t define me. People think I’m just this hot-headed, defensive girl with an attitude. But there’s more to me. I’m soft-hearted. Loyal. Thoughtful. I just happen to be fiery when pushed,” said Minnie.

Although she hasn’t spoken about returning for another season, she hasn’t ruled it out either.

“Never say never. If I did, it would have to be from a place of growth, not ego. I’ve learnt that being real doesn’t always mean being reactive. Showing up with silence is a lesson I’d love to explore,” she added.

Minnie said things got out of hand, and while the full story wasn’t aired, she’s since taken accountability and tried to make amends.

“There’s no dramatic backstory or secret feud. What happened between us happened on the show, in real time, and unfortunately, it spiralled,” she said.

“I’ve since reflected and reached out privately to apologise. What viewers saw wasn’t the full picture, but my actions in those moments are on me.”

As for the emotional toll that comes with reality TV, she’s learnt to step back and protect her peace.

“I take breaks. I protect my peace. I pray a lot, I’ve learnt to remind myself that public opinion doesn’t define me. People think I’m just this hot-headed, defensive girl with an attitude. But there’s more to me. I’m soft-hearted. Loyal. Thoughtful. I just happen to be fiery when pushed,” said Minnie.

Although she hasn’t spoken about returning for another season, she hasn’t ruled it out either.

“Never say never. If I did, it would have to be from a place of growth, not ego. I’ve learnt that being real doesn’t always mean being reactive. Showing up with silence is a lesson I’d love to explore,” she added.